Love Your Mess

Love Your Mess: The Book

I live in your head…and write about it in this book.

Let’s face it: Your life is messy. As it should be.

This book is about accepting the messiness of the ride that is your life:

Your mess is beautiful. It is real. It is you. It is even, in its own way, funny. Sometimes really, really funny. Whatever it is, it is yours. Your mess is your message, so no more wishing it away, OK?

I wrote most of what became this book during a very messy period in my own life. As had been my pattern for most of my Type-A/Control Freak life, I agonized over my mess and over the messiness of life in general.

It took some major life changes to help me realize that my mess was OK.

That I was OK. There was nothing to fix. Or hide. Or sweep under something somewhere. In fact, most of the lessons that life had for me were to be found in that very mess.

I have got to quit reading @AllisonNazarian – I identify with what she says so closely that I’m moved to tears EVERY TIME.

~ @krisiallen

By the way…this book does NOT contain all the answers you seek. In fact, it may contain NONE of your answers because you already have those inside of you. No magic pill, no unicorns and no fluffy promises that never amount to anything.

This book isn’t about getting rich quick or losing weight by next week or finding the love of your life. Sure, all of that is possible, but I am not the one with the claims and the promises for everyone else. This isn’t about fixing things – it is about being OK with what is and creating what you want to be now, not later.

So what’s in it for you, you ask? Love Your Mess™ may alter the way you look at something (or someone) in your life. It may give you the nudge you need to move in a different direction. It may lead to some scary yet totally awesome realizations that change one thing.

Or everything.

And if none of those things happen, then at the very least you will laugh your head off at some of the things in my life that I actually admit in public. You’ll likely also strain your neck nodding at everything that sounds suspiciously, amazingly JUST LIKE YOU AND YOUR LIFE!

@AllisonNazarian was up til 2:30 finishing up Love Your Mess  TY so much 4 sharing it w/me! It needs 2 get out there in a big way

~ @daniellemmiller

What is this book about? The premise of this book is pretty simple, yet many of us spend our lives trying to complicate, to run from it, to deny it, to defy it and to change it.

Your life is a mess. You have a mess. You are a mess.

We are taught to clean, hide, put away, sweep out, pretend about and generally just get rid of our messes. And for good reason. A mess is, well, a mess. Can be ugly. Nasty. Itchy. Painful. Yucky.

This is Real Life. And real life can be is messy.

Every single part of your mess, even and especially those that feel and look the worst, is here for a reason. For each of us, a huge part of this journey we call life is about learning to accept, embrace, revel in and, yes, love your mess.

Loving Your Mess is about accepting, embracing and loving your mess exactly as it is right now. Loving Your Mess is what will give you the courage to leave a bad relationship, the drive to start a new business, the push to lose weight or the discipline to give up smoking. Loving your Mess is not about surviving; it is about really living.

Right. Now.

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I love your book. It goes everywhere with me (clearly). When I feel down I simply open it to a random section and find myself realizing that I am worth picking up the pieces. Regardless of how messy my life gets. My book is dirty and dog-eared (honestly, I NEVER do that) and I love it. It is my blankey. My source of comfort because while life might be shitty right this second, there is going to be another moment when it’s not. I live for those moments. I don’t think I would have thought to do that without your book.

So, that is what your book means to me. Hope. Thank you for writing it.

~R.S.

So…Your mess is a good thing. It is something to love. It is something that, if you let it, can help you change, create or do anything in your life right now in this very moment.

I can’t wait to hear about your Love Your Mess experience. Don’t forget to share it with me!

Love You and Your Mess,

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“I don’t want your advice. I just want your story. Your advice sends me on my way. Your story comes with me”

~ Donald Miller

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P.S. At the end of the day, the book is just under $10 if you want the digital version, and $19.95 if you go with the hard copy. An easy and inexpensive decision. Go for it!

Can’t wait to hear about your Love Your Mess experience!

I purchased two so I could give one away on my blog because EVERYONE needs your book.

~ Rachel

Had to let you know!

You are a powerful healer. Your writing. Love Your Mess bringing some good (and not so good) stuff to the surface. Your words are powerful energy. Welcome to the airbending world, sister.

~ Lori